What if everything you’re trying to control is actually what’s holding you back?

In this opening session, Kyle talks about creating an event (and a life) without over-planning — letting God / Source / the Now do what it wants instead of trying to control the outcome. He shares a real-time story about being woken up by his daughter the night before and how even that “inconvenience” became a doorway into deeper release. From there he unpacks why so much of our anxiety comes from trying to keep an old, trauma-built identity alive — the “small self” that was formed in childhood to get approval, not the true self that’s connected to Source.

This episode dives into:

• Why control actually blocks spontaneity and miracles

• Letting events, relationships, and even dates “be what they need to be”

• How not getting what you want is often God upgrading you, not just your circumstances

• Attachment vs expansion (are you keeping it because it’s you, or because you’re scared?)

• The “two Earths” idea — people clinging to the wounded child identity vs people surrendering to their true self

• Why saying no is spiritual (especially for empaths)

• “You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you are”

• A guided visualization to meet the freest version of you and feel what life would be like after you let go

By the end, you’re invited to actually write down the most expanded version of yourself — who you’re with, where you live, what your body feels like, and what you’ve finally set boundaries around — so you can stop keeping your old story alive and let the real you run the show.

In this episode Kyle works live with the audience on one of the deepest patterns most of us carry: the unconscious belief “I’m not safe” — and all the overthinking, planning, people-pleasing, and control that gets built on top of it. A woman shares that she’s always “trying to be prepared so I’m safe,” and Kyle shows how that sentence secretly assumes “I’m not safe,” so life keeps mirroring that back. From there he unpacks how childhoods that looked “fine” on paper can still create a kid who wasn’t emotionally seen, and that kid grows up minimizing her own feelings because “other people had it worse.”

Then it shifts into a powerful second share with a woman who realizes she actually creates chaos so she can manage it — because real peace feels unsafe to an inner child raised in an unstable house. Kyle shows her how she can become the safe space for the chaos inside instead of chasing chaotic people to fix on the outside.

What’s inside:

• Worrying = spending your day inventing outcomes you don’t want

• The hidden sentence under most control patterns: “If I’m not prepared, I’m not safe”

• How subtle childhood invalidation (“you should be grateful, other kids have it worse”) makes adults ignore their own pain

• Projection 101: why seeing kids run around an airport can trigger your “they’re not safe” wound

• Safety props vs real safety — friends, food, jobs, even Netflix we keep only to cover a default “I’m not safe”

• Avoiding something is still being attached to it

• Letting the part of you that’s scared, angry, or ashamed sit in your body and be allowed

• The wild reframe: “You’re allowed to waste your life in my body” — dropping the egoic warden that keeps you hustling out of fear instead of living from God/Source

By the end, the episode lands on this: when you stop trying not to be unsafe, you actually become the safety. And from there you can set real boundaries instead of survival ones.

This episode starts light — Kyle jokes about not doing the hyped-up seminar thing — and then drops straight into the deep end: how sitting in silence and actually feeling is way more transformative than pumping yourself up to avoid your patterns. He talks about how raising your frequency (Hawkins-style) doesn’t just change you, it lifts the collective.

Then a woman shares something huge: she’s carried 45 years of guilt because her 8-year-old daughter was sexually abused at a boarding school she chose. Kyle walks her through seeing what guilt actually is — the ego’s way of staying small and “unworthy” — and helps her separate what actually happened from the story “I ruined her life.” He shows her:

• Guilt is a lie, not a virtue.

• Her 21-year-old self made the best choice she knew at the time.

• She’s been trying to get resolution from her daughter instead of getting resolution with God/her Higher Self.

• She’s been seeing herself through the eyes of the one person who currently doesn’t approve of her (and ignoring the wife who adores her).

• Chasing her daughter’s approval has become an addiction to shame and guilt — just as real as any other addiction.

Kyle reframes it: your freedom doesn’t have to wait for someone else to “come around.” Heal first, then bring love — whether they accept it or not. He also gives the room a tool: name the sabotaging voice (“Kryptonite”) so when it says “this won’t last when you go home,” you can spot it.

By the end, the episode lands on this core boundary:
Stop letting people who aren’t doing the inner work decide whether you’re allowed to feel forgiven. Heal your inner child, receive love, and let your frequency do the liberating.

In this session Kyle helps a woman who feels rejected by God discover that what she’s really meeting is spacious, nonjudgmental presence—not the punitive, performance-based God she grew up with. As she lets that space surface her old fear of “doing it wrong,” he shows how childhood religious conditioning, expectation, and the need for recognition from God all block receiving. The group then explores how forgiveness, releasing control, and actually taking up space are the next steps after setting boundaries: once the small self loosens, we learn to receive.

Kyle shares Abraham Hicks’ emotional guidance scale and uses it to show why some “hard” feelings are actually steps upward. Then he teaches how to tell the difference between what you should actually boundary… and what’s just stretching your ego so you can grow (conscious partnerships, family tension, even sitting on the beach instead of overworking). You’ll hear live coaching on lifelong caretaking, grief, money-as-savior, and the terror of being seen — all leading to one theme: you’re allowed to receive. It ends with a hilarious “Price Is Right” exercise to practice saying yes to gifts without guilt.

Kyle brings Amber on to share how she left a “perfectly good” marriage to follow a deeper spiritual partnership, and how losing symbolic things (an emerald ring, a sticker-covered water bottle, even the idea of having a child) was actually life saying, “You don’t need that version of you anymore.” They talk about conscious relationship, keeping your heart open instead of shutting down, the “shame filter,” and how love will come to you when you stop gripping your agenda. Then Kyle pivots into a huge reframe: some things you can’t boundary — kids, family, even health challenges — and the work becomes changing the meaning of them. A woman with chronic fatigue shares, and Kyle + Amber help her see it not as “what’s in the way” but as the very doorway to dissolving the achiever and healing the old “I’m worthless if I can’t do” story.

Kyle closes the Boundaries course with a powerful final exercise "Kylego" a practice of speaking your future as if it’s already happened. Through audience demonstrations, he shows how this process transforms fear, doubt, and ego into pure presence and creation. Participants move from anxiety to freedom, from control to connection, and from caterpillar to butterfly. Kyle invites you to write and speak your own new world into existence one rooted in love, boundaries, and divine trust. The event ends with a celebration of completion, a reminder of how far you’ve come, and an invitation to keep expanding beyond the old story.